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Help my Boyfriend is taking MJ...:(
posted by (Jul 11, 2012 @ 11:04PM) views: 808
Una sa lahat, I just want you guys to know that hindi ko jina judge kung ano man ang ginagawa nang boyfriend ko which is taking MJ but mahalaga sa akin ang pananaw at paniniwala nang pamilya ko tungkol doon.

Mahal ko ang boyfriend ko, he is very loving at ganun din sya sa akin. He had a very bad childhood. His Dad was waiting for trial and it will end up for him to be lock up in jail or he will commit suicide. My boyfriend is very worried. His psychiatrist said that MJ is beneficial to him because he is taking an anti-anxiety meds and an anti-depressants too. I understand. I researched it..so alam ko na hindi sya nagsisinungaling sa akin.

Pero hindi ang pamilya ko. They will freak out pag malalaman nila. Hindi ko alam ang gagawin. Mahalaga sa akin ang pamilya at ang pananaw nila, pero mahal ko ang boyfreind. Alam ko kung ano ang mga pinag-daanan niya at hindi madali kalimutan ang mga yon. He's been through a lot

If your in my position anong gagawin nyo? Kasi sooner or later malalaman at malalaman ng pamilya ko yon. At kapag mangyari yon I really dont know what to do.
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ice102    •reply Jul 11, 2012 @ 11:07 PM
 
what is MJ anyway? pardon me for asking though. coz there is only one MJ that i am fully aware of and that is MICHAEL JACKSON. again, pardon my ignorance.
starbuko1234    •reply Jul 11, 2012 @ 11:26 PM
 
marijuana
callmemaybe    •reply Jul 11, 2012 @ 11:32 PM
 
how often does he take it? araw-araw ba? does it negatively affect his everyday activities, like work, his relationship with you, etc?

kasi kung bihira lang naman and it's not abused at wala naman negative effects, i believe ok lang naman yun IF he is old enough AND hindi ka nya inaalok. especially as you said may therapeutic effect sa kanya at may consent pa ng psychiatrist niya, if that part is true ha, kasi syempre bawwal pa din yun dito. kaya ingat din sya, medyo delikado din.

gaano na ba kayo katagal? how old are you guys? do u need to tell your family about it? i know most people wouldn't understand and judge right away, kaya hirap din nga yan.

pero buti ok lang sayo? have u asked him to stop?
  gossipgirl_kT    •reply    Jul-12-12@8:32AM
  loveme3s    •reply    Jul-12-12@11:36AM
I'm 26.. he is 35, Hindi naman once in a while lang naman niya tinetake..before he was addicted to it.. but he decided to stope his addiction..hard he said..his body is not fully recovered fron it yet.. u know withdrawal kinda thing.. but he is trying hard really to be better.. he is very emotional .. when he remembers his past he will start to cry..hard for me too actually..sometimes I think that he is draining me emotionally but if I stop loving him..wala na xang pupuntahan.. ..naawa ako sa kanya.. SAna maintindihan ng pamilya ko and sana he will be better soon
  ______    •reply    Jul-12-12@11:54PM
kung okay lang ang marijuana bakit binawal. tsk tsk

parang shabu kung konti lang oks lang? kumbaga social user ika ng alabang boys?
butterfly20    •reply Jul 11, 2012 @ 11:49 PM
 
Di naman nya tina take un for some reason di ba. so why judge ? di man sya adik ba ? Sa US di ba legal ang MJ for med reason ?
  ice102    •reply    Jul-11-12@11:50PM
some are taking it for their glaucoma
  butterfly20    •reply    Jul-12-12@12:51AM
Glaucoma is an eye disorder ba ?
  ice102    •reply    Jul-12-12@3:45PM
yep...
  loveme3s    •reply    Jul-12-12@11:43AM
YUp its legal...
zantetsuken    •reply Jul 12, 2012 @ 12:58 AM
 
ive been through a lot but i never turn into using mj.. valium pwede pa.
  akosime    •reply    Jul-12-12@8:30AM
lithium pwd rin.. kung bipolar xa kgya ko
  loveme3s    •reply    Jul-12-12@12:02PM
ayup his psychiatrist said Mj will calm him down.. sometimes he experience an anxiety attack...
gossipgirl_kT    •reply Jul 12, 2012 @ 8:31 AM
 
handa mo ba ipaglaban bf mo sa family mo?
fehfeh    •reply Jul 12, 2012 @ 9:47 AM
 
nakakaloka. wla me masey,
  loveme3s    •reply    Jul-12-12@11:45AM
kaloka talaga...
carriebelle    •reply Jul 12, 2012 @ 10:28 AM
 
i think there are other things that can help your bf other than MJ. hindi lang naman sya ang maraming pinagdadaanan, lahat tayo merong baggage, but it doesn't mean that we all need to take MJ. i am not judging him, all i am saying is, there are other options available to people to cope up with bad situations. maraming hindi maganda ang childhood but they turned out good. nasa sa tao pa rin yan kung paano nya haharapin ang buhay nya
  loveme3s    •reply    Jul-12-12@11:49AM
I agree.. he tried all kind of those stuff, tried yoga, tried writing on his journal..end up breakdown.. he tried sports but he has low immune system because of an accident he had before..the doctor took out his spleen.. marami talaga syang experience na iwan ko na if ako nasa posisyon nya.. siguro nasa mental na ako ngayon.. he is trying to be better..thats why he is seeing a psychiatrist, a specialist, and a therapist..
  orthochild    •reply    Jul-12-12@12:09PM
patry mo Valium
_kAz_    •reply Jul 12, 2012 @ 11:54 AM
 
kamuzta guys??
whing2    •reply Jul 12, 2012 @ 12:44 PM
 
meron pa naman siguro ibang option other than taking mj try mo ipa counseling sya? Mas maganda yun, kasi yung pag take ng mj effective lang yun for mean time, but its not really a cure, , delikado yan eh, for me kasi parang way yan to commit suicide
seph007    •reply Jul 12, 2012 @ 1:04 PM
 
I think your parents will freak out nga naman but if explained well medyo ma lessen and freakout level and at first pagsasabihan ka malamang but in the end if alam ng parents mong mahal nyo isat isa eh mag gigive way din sila but be wary that saksakan ng pag wawarn ng parent mo sayo sa simula
  erinn    •reply    Jul-12-12@4:36PM
  seph007    •reply    Jul-13-12@6:02AM
uy thx may sense pala sinasabi ko
  erinn    •reply    Jul-13-12@3:18PM
kala mu wala?
  seph007    •reply    Jul-13-12@5:06PM
wala haha
fire23phoenix    •reply Jul 12, 2012 @ 2:40 PM
 
hmm do he really needs that in his everyday living? or baka naman me other options yung psychologist nya? Ask ko din yung friend ko about dyan kasi for sure me remedy dyan eh...tinanggap mo naman pati sya and the situation itself and somehow u can keep a secret to your family naman coz for sure eh its hard for them to understand it but mahirap din kasi ang me tinatago eh so hindi ba nya kaya na di mag take nun in one day? maybe he needs rehabilitation too coz its not legal here in philippines
22bentedos    •reply Jul 12, 2012 @ 5:21 PM
 
paktay tayo jan
procastination    •reply Jul 12, 2012 @ 10:25 PM
 
sila
______    •reply Jul 13, 2012 @ 12:00 AM
 
may mga ganyan cases din sa family namin pero never sila nagresort sa bawal.
sa una paunti unti lang yan. kaya nga pinagbawal yan kasi nga nakakaadik.

selfish ang bf mo. sarili nya lang ang iniisip nya..
kuleeeeet    •reply Jul 13, 2012 @ 12:17 AM
 
malat mo bukas ok na sya.
freedertjosh    •reply Jul 13, 2012 @ 7:25 AM
 
freedertjosh    •reply Jul 13, 2012 @ 7:26 AM
 

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